Monday, January 27, 2014

What Defines Maturity

Last night, I had a petty argument with my 35 year old boyfriend Darth that became big when he all of a sudden brought the argument online. He posted messages in a language he knows i dont understand and made sure that its hard to translate it in Google. He said that he just wanted to express his feelings thats why he did it.

So can't help but wonder, does being mature means being able to pay your credit card bills? Is it by being able to enter clubs because you're over 18 years old? Is it by being able to vote? Or is it by being able to screw things up and still have the power to redo things?

One thing that I have realized is that age is never a guarantee for maturity. Some say that its what you have learned in school, read in books, things you have learned in the places that you've been mixed with life experiences and the things your mentors in life has told you. But seriously, what defines maturity?